Nearly four years after the federal government passed legislative amendments aimed at combating forced and servile marriages, charges were laid for the first time in the Melbourne Magistrates Court last week.
In 2015 in New South Wales a 27-year-old man was sentenced to 10 years in jail for the persistent sexual abuse of a child after “marrying” a 12-year-old girl, and the imam who conducted the “marriage” was found guilty of procuring a child for the purpose of sexual abuse. The imam was fined $500 and his religious visa for residence in Australia was cancelled. That case was heard under New South Wales criminal law rather than under the federal forced marriage legislation because the defence argued that the marriage was consensual and at that stage, age was not considered a factor in whether or not a marriage was consensual — a loophole that has since been closed.
Last Friday, Imam Ibrahim Omerdic was charged with “conduct that caused a minor to enter into a forced marriage” at a Bosnian mosque in the Melbourne suburb of Noble Park in September last year. The girl’s 34-year-old “husband” (a forced marriage is legally void) is charged with sexual penetration of a child under the age of 16 and of being party to a forced marriage. This case and its aftermath illustrate the need to better address the issue of forced marriage but also the fact despite the need for better awareness and education, any publicity is not necessarily good publicity.
The Islamic Council of Victoria and the Victorian Board of Imams had known that the case was forthcoming and released statements condemning the practice of forced marriage in anticipation of Friday’s court hearing. Speaking on Sunday night, Islamic Council of Victoria president Mohamed Mohideen said that “both the ICV and the Board of Imams have worked closely with the committee of the mosque over this issue, but the police advised us that we could not say anything publicly about this until after the court hearing on Friday”. They are angered, then, by media coverage accusing them of doing too little, too late.
In particular, those attending the mosque at the centre of the case are distressed by the fact that initial media reports of the case described Omerdic as their current rather than former imam. In fact, Omerdic was suspended from his position with the Bosnian Islamic Society immediately after his arrest and subsequently sacked when it became clear that charges would be laid. The new imam arrived two weeks ago, and Mohideen says that he is reported to be have made a positive first impression.
Online comments calling for the mosque to be closed down because of the crime committed there have caused immense fear and trepidation: “[Omerdic] had been the imam for over 30 years so people had trust in him. But the Bosnian community had no part in what took place. [Other than Omerdic], those involved in the marriage were from outside their community.”
There is unhappiness, too, over articles accusing the Islamic Council of Victoria of effectively condoning forced and child marriage in its statement of condemnation. For example, in an article for The Daily Telegraph headlined “Unholy matrimony and the Islamic community’s hidden stain”, Piers Akerman seized upon the line in which the ICV noted that while marriage below the age of 16 was permitted overseas, this did not justify such marriages taking place in Australia. According to Akerman, the statement might “make some readers wonder why the Islamic Council members didn’t say they think forced child marriage is absolutely abhorrent wherever it is practiced?”.
Well, perhaps because the ICV recognises where its power ends and that of the Department of Foreign Affairs and Trade begins. As Mohideen notes: “The ICV has no control over what happens overseas.” The ICV understands the need to recognise that many of its members might themselves have been married below the age of 16 before their migration to Australia when notifying them that this practice is not acceptable in Australian society. (Removing a child overseas for the purpose of forced marriage is also illegal under Australian law.)
The ICV statement goes on to note: “The ICV does not believe that forced or child marriages are a widespread practice here in Australia, but regardless, one instance is too many.” However, Joumanah el Matrah from the Melbourne-based Australian Muslim Women’s Centre for Human Rights was less sanguine. She notes: “We don’t actually know the extent to which early and forced marriage is a problem in Australia. There is no evidence from which one can really generalise. Also, there is a question as to ‘significant problem’ — compared to what? If we compare early and forced marriage to family violence, the numbers we do have suggest a manageable problem — but the reality of forced marriage demonstrates clearly that it is a significant problem in the sense that it an inherently harmful practice for the victim and for women’s status generally. It is useful to note that the number of cases our centre responds to annually has not significantly increased — that’s roughly seven to 12 cases per annum.”
El Matrah also noted the negative impact of racialised commentary such as Akerman’s: “The sensationalism and alarmism of the media make community engagement and education impossible in the period immediately following coverage of a story. Media coverage on this issue is characterised by gross generalisations and omission of important information. Presentation of an issue like early and forced marriage is often blatantly racist. This creates a view among some Muslims that they have to protect themselves against vilification and misrepresentation. It therefore becomes far more difficult to engage communities meaningfully on any difficult or controversial practice.”
On Monday, NSW Family and Community Services Minister Brad Hazzard flagged possible new state legislation to combat what he described as the “horrific” practice of forced marriage. Although The Daily Telegraph report on the mooted legislation described it as “New laws to get tough on parents who force arranged marriages”, in fact the options being explored are means of providing women and girls with a “softer” course of action than potentially sending their parents to prison. Such steps could include UK-style forced marriage protection orders, as well as the confiscation of the parents’ passports if they fail to disclose the location of a missing child to the Family Court. Such civil measures could be an important step forward, given evidence from both Australia and overseas that the possibility of criminal sanctions against their parents is a major factor deterring women and girls from reporting forced marriage. And since the burden of proof is lower for civil than for criminal cases, they are more likely to be successful.
Perhaps the most famous international account of the experience of forced marriage is that of Somali-born former Dutch MP Ayaan Hirsi Ali, who claimed asylum in the Netherlands en route to a marriage in Canada that she later claimed to have been forced. (Her family disputes this account and at the time of her asylum application, Hirsi Ali falsely claimed to have been fleeing the war in Somalia, despite having lived in Kenya for many years.) Yet even Hirsi Ali illustrates the reluctance of women in such cases to entirely break ranks with their families. She continued to provide financial support to her family and to visit them in Kenya for years after she had settled in the Netherlands and broken ranks with her religious community. It seems vanishingly unlikely that she would have given evidence in court that would have sent her father to prison, despite having so publicly denounced both him and his religious beliefs.
Most women and girls seeking support in escaping from forced marriage do not wish to follow Hirsi Ali’s example by exiting their religious community, nor have their plight appropriated as a means of attacking it. They are unlikely to thank “supporters” like Piers Akerman or crime writer Gabrielle Lord, whose 2014 novel Dishonoured featured a forced marriage storyline and who is now listed alongside cartoonist Larry Pickering and ageing rocker Angry Anderson as one of the guest speakers at one of the anti-Islamic Q Society’s fundraising dinners in Sydney later this year. Rather, they seek to have parental plans disrupted and safe exit routes provided.
This, of course, requires not just more effective legislation and enforcement, but better resources for support services and refuges — something that the New South Wales state government in particular has been reluctant to provide.
One of the biggest problems as I see it is that within all considerations and discussions of this problem is that the needs of the “kid” comes last. All the adults including the author of this story are primarily focussed on the good reputation of those poor adults and their religious communities. Give us a break, start putting the needs of your children first may be a first step in addressing this vile abuse.
Fair comment for sure. When does arranged become forced I wonder. I know one or two Indians who have had arranged marriages, apparently OK. Of course we should also consider a few supposedly Christian cults that come up now and again but hey white Christians would never do that would they?
Another of Ms Hussein’s usual taqiya dissembling & cisobfuscation.
The central problem, – “do not wish to follow Hirsi Ali’s example by exiting their religious community is easily solved.
No religious delusion allowed in the public space.
Simples.
Shakira is pleading for cultural tolerance toward Islam to facilitate judicial flexibility toward families of child brides. It’s a hopeless plea. And there’s even less hope for “better resources for support services and refugees”. Trump happened. Like the A-bomb, you can’t un-invent it. We’re in a new world of barbaric cultural hyper-intolerance, so the strategic route now may well have to be the exclusively judicial one.
I’m no lawyer, and even knowledgeable about the marriage rules of Islam’s various iterations, but it seems to me (leaving aside the groom’s statutory rape culpability, because no-one is challenging that) there are two quite separate issues here.
One is the objective wrong of the marriage act (i.e. the child-bride marrying ceremony itself), and the other is the wrong as experienced subjectively by the ‘bride’. Vital parties to the former should be automatically held to account by Australian law: Obviously the officiator, as active giver of the bride; the groom, as active receiver; but also (though to a lesser extent of culpability, given their role is crucially more observational or ‘passive’) any formal witnesses. These witnesses may or may not include parents, but their punishments may be not unreasonably nominal in light of their more ‘passive’ role in the criminal marriage act. On this view, it would be the active parties that should be the focus of heavy punishment specifically aimed publicly at deterring the ‘event’ of child marriage.
On the other hand, the bride (and only the bride) should have the option of bringing charges for mistreatment or similar (other than statutory rape, and any associated or facilitating acts, such as confinement or delivery, etc.) such as may have been committed by parents of either the bride or groom, or any others (such as harassment, extortion, emotional blackmail, etc, as well as confinement, delivery, etc). In this way, the bride could be reserved the right to act OR TO NOT act against her own parents (and just as reasonably, act against any others directly involved, including any in her own, or in the groom’s, wider families), but still not be compelled to act by the state.
What I’ve said here may be completely misguided, but just as it is certain the law can’t make any special exceptions for Islam, it’s even more certain that hoping judges influenced by a fresh culture of tolerance toward Islam is a worthy but utterly hopeless pipedream.
Forced marriage happens among girls of Sikh, Hindu and other faiths.
And, Yusuf, what do they have in common? Religious ratbaggery.
All religions are garbage, some are far worse than others.
I never doubted it for a second, Irfan, which is why my ‘legalistic’ proposals are scrupulously non-denominational (other than observing that the point of departure for my suggestions is the futility of Shakira’s desire to defend Islamic culture, via publicly funded ‘services’, etc).
What is telling though about your response is its appeal to Islamic people’s victimhood. Listen up: that just politically won’t wash in the West. Tragically, but no less true for it, Israel totally beat you Muslims to special global victimhood status (simply because the Holocaust happened in the West, and the 1973 Yom Kippur surprise attack on Israel settled it forever in the Western popular imagination).
You guys really do have to get smart and give up these decades of failed identity politics. Nobody gives a stuff about your culture’s uniqueness, its geographical history, or the political legitimacy of its claims, if all that it represents today is big old “we’re owed!”
Western imperialism screwed everyone; and, in Western eyes, precisely because everyone’s owed, no-one’s owed. Not even the liberal left sympathises with Islam today. And following the atrocities of ISIS, no matter how mistakenly, it likely now never will.
Hence my argument that Shakira should stop appealing for public sympathy, and start thinking strategically. The ICV shouldn’t be responding with speeches. It should be leading with legislation. It needs to give up being the voice of victims, and instead declare itself the voice of survivors. Public support might follow that. But in the age of Trump there’s no chance it’ll follow “we’re really no worse child rapists than Sikhs or Hindus”.
….”nor have their plight appropriated as a means of attacking it”.
How is Hirsi Ali appropriating anything? It’s her life and her plight.
The NY Times published excerpts from Hirsi Ali’s letters in 2006, which dispel the sinister charges carelessly repeated here, that she made up the arranged marriage.
There is no doubt that the arranged marriage took place. The dispute is over whether or not she initially consented.
The “dispute”? So you admit your article suggesting Ayaan Hirsi Ali was lying about her marriage is mere hearsay.
http://query.nytimes.com/gst/abstract.html?res=9501E7D7103EF937A15756C0A9609C8B63&legacy=true
New York Times – Somali in The Hague Faces a More Personal Attack
By MARLISE SIMONS
Published: May 24, 2006
The New York Times dispelled that gossip in publishing excerpts from letters:
”Your husband in Germany is looking for you,” the letter reads, ”and the whole search is being coordinated by father here.”
“Referring to members of their clan, Haweya wrote: ”Practically all the Osman Mahamud in that area are looking for you everywhere. Be warned.””
“In January 1993, after writing to beg forgiveness for her disobedience in refusing the husband chosen, she said she needed his blessing.
”Dear Deceitful Fox,” her father replied. ”You do not need me and I do not need you. I just invoked Allah to disgrace you, as you have disgraced me. Amen!”
Seems pretty clear to me. (I can’t imagine why you’d want to pick on Ayaan Hirsi Ali).